People often say that when someone is in a relationship, one sometimes is quite hard to choose between friends and lover in certain situation....
For those who are always the winners in relationship, they won't have to face the dilemma of the above situation....as their decision would always be either friends or lover and it all depends on them...
For those who are victims or losers in relationship, they won't have to face the above dilemma too...because they will always choose lovers as they don't have any other choices...
However, for those who are neither winners or losers in relationship, they would have the difficulties in choosing between peers or lovers...They would like to choose friends..On the other hand, they would like to choose lover as well....
What should these kind of persons do and which would be the best options and solutions for them???Nobody knows......
Monday, December 29, 2008
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
More than words...
The first time sitting in front of the laptop and looking at the screen for around 30 minutes without typing anything.... Today is a dark blue day....In fact, there are so many things to write here...about the things that happened today...about someone's feelings......
BUT.....all of a sudden,
running out of ideas to write....
becoming speechless...
things just happened too sudden...very fast...very painful...until don't know how to express in words...because everything is more than words...
Friday, December 12, 2008
The Road Not Taken??!!!
"what will u do after graduating?"
1. Continue studying Master and Phd...
2. Working...
3. Getting married....
4. Help out in family business...
5. Don't know...
Congratulation to those who give the answers from 1 to 4 as they know their future pathway...
One who would give the 5th answer might be people who:
- really doesn't know what should s(he) do in the future,
- doesn't have objectives and dreams to be achieved in s(he) life.
- is unwilling to follow what s(he) parents say.
- struggles in many choices of what s(he) should do in the future.
- lives in the state of denial...s(he) doesn't want to face this reality of life.
Which is the best road to take???
Nobody knows....Only God knows...
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Over the rainbow
Somewhere, over the rainbow, way up high.
There's a land that I heard of Once in a lullaby.
Somewhere, over the rainbow, skies are blue.
And the dreams that you dare to dream
Really do come true.
Someday I'll wish upon a star and wake up where the clouds are far Behind me.
Where troubles melt like lemon drops, Away above the chimney tops.
That's where you'll find me.
Somewhere, over the rainbow, bluebirds fly. Birds fly over the rainbow,
Why then - oh, why can't I?
If happy little bluebirds fly beyond the rainbow,
Why, oh, why can't I?
There's a land that I heard of Once in a lullaby.
Somewhere, over the rainbow, skies are blue.
And the dreams that you dare to dream
Really do come true.
Someday I'll wish upon a star and wake up where the clouds are far Behind me.
Where troubles melt like lemon drops, Away above the chimney tops.
That's where you'll find me.
Somewhere, over the rainbow, bluebirds fly. Birds fly over the rainbow,
Why then - oh, why can't I?
If happy little bluebirds fly beyond the rainbow,
Why, oh, why can't I?
I personally love this song and I think that it's a nice song...Don't you think so???
Beautiful rainy day...
Even though today is rainy day, my mood seems to be pretty good...
Maybe because.........
-I started to believe that there's always rainbow after raining.......
OR
-Everything is controlled by GOD and the only thing that we can do is to leave everything to His mighty hands...
Monday, December 8, 2008
Life Is Just Like Acting A Movie..
Before this, I would never ever understood why people would say life is like acting a movie...Until..A friend of mine told me her true story which happened in this year....
Story begins like this.......
My friend whose name is Lily...She met a guy whose name is Edward...
Before Lily dated with Edward, Edward had a gf who was with him for almost 2 years. However, due to some reasons, Edward can't be with his gf anymore and he broke up with his gf at last. Before breaking up with his gf, Edward already met Lily and they were friends at that time. At that time, Lily found out that she fell in love with Edward and so was Edward. After breaking up with his gf, Edward decided to be with Lily together...Both of them were so happy in spending time together because finally,they can be with the person whom they love.
Things in this world always don't go smooth...That's called Life.....
One rainy day, Edward was so depressed and unhappy...Lily can sense that and he tried to ask Edward what had happened to him...But....Edward didn't want to tell Lily as he didn't want Lily to be unhappy too..There was one day, Lily discovered something about Edward...This was really really a serious and big case which can lead to the break up between Edward and Lily...
From that moment onwards, Lily finally understood why Edward never wanted to tell Lily what had happened to him because.....after knowing this, it was really depressing and hurt.....But.....they would have to face it...They can;t run away from it....
At last.....................................well...in this story..I can only say that Life is just like acting a movie...
Story begins like this.......
My friend whose name is Lily...She met a guy whose name is Edward...
Before Lily dated with Edward, Edward had a gf who was with him for almost 2 years. However, due to some reasons, Edward can't be with his gf anymore and he broke up with his gf at last. Before breaking up with his gf, Edward already met Lily and they were friends at that time. At that time, Lily found out that she fell in love with Edward and so was Edward. After breaking up with his gf, Edward decided to be with Lily together...Both of them were so happy in spending time together because finally,they can be with the person whom they love.
Things in this world always don't go smooth...That's called Life.....
One rainy day, Edward was so depressed and unhappy...Lily can sense that and he tried to ask Edward what had happened to him...But....Edward didn't want to tell Lily as he didn't want Lily to be unhappy too..There was one day, Lily discovered something about Edward...This was really really a serious and big case which can lead to the break up between Edward and Lily...
From that moment onwards, Lily finally understood why Edward never wanted to tell Lily what had happened to him because.....after knowing this, it was really depressing and hurt.....But.....they would have to face it...They can;t run away from it....
At last.....................................well...in this story..I can only say that Life is just like acting a movie...
The poisonous act...
Did you ever love the cruelest person in your world ??For me, I will define a cruel person as the following:
Person who can dump u just because of other person..
Person who can forget every promises that he or she had given u during the sweet moment..
Person who can hurt u deeply without ever thought of ur feelings of being hurt..
Person who can date with other person while he or she is in relationship with u..
Person whose heart is so hard until he or she can leave the person who love her or him waited alone at her house for so so so long and the cold-blooded person was with another person...
Person who can lie to the person who love his or her so much again and again...
The poisonous act in this world is to hurt persons who love u over and over again....
I think the sillest act in this world is to forgive person who hurt u so deeply..Person who hurts someone in deep would never ever wanted the victim to forgive her or never angry and hated her..This is because as long as the victim hates her,she will feel better and she won't feel guilty.. But...things in this world always don't seem to be perfect and smooth...The victim kept on telling the person that he never hated her, and even told her tht he never angry at her actions that hurt him so much in their relationship...
Person who can dump u just because of other person..
Person who can forget every promises that he or she had given u during the sweet moment..
Person who can hurt u deeply without ever thought of ur feelings of being hurt..
Person who can date with other person while he or she is in relationship with u..
Person whose heart is so hard until he or she can leave the person who love her or him waited alone at her house for so so so long and the cold-blooded person was with another person...
Person who can lie to the person who love his or her so much again and again...
The poisonous act in this world is to hurt persons who love u over and over again....
I think the sillest act in this world is to forgive person who hurt u so deeply..Person who hurts someone in deep would never ever wanted the victim to forgive her or never angry and hated her..This is because as long as the victim hates her,she will feel better and she won't feel guilty.. But...things in this world always don't seem to be perfect and smooth...The victim kept on telling the person that he never hated her, and even told her tht he never angry at her actions that hurt him so much in their relationship...
The only thing that cruel person can do to their victim is to leave him alone and never ever appeared in his life...Best wishes to all the victims in love relationship....
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